# Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds

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## Metadata
- Author: [[James Clear]]
- Full Title: Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds
- Category: #articles
- URL: https://jamesclear.com/why-facts-dont-change-minds

## Highlights
- False beliefs can be useful in a social sense even if they are not useful in a factual sense. For lack of a better phrase, we might call this approach “factually false, but socially accurate.” 4 When we have to choose between the two, people often select friends and family over facts.
- The way to change people’s minds is to become friends with them, to integrate them into your tribe, to bring them into your circle. Now, they can change their beliefs without the risk of being abandoned socially.
- Perhaps it is not difference, but distance that breeds tribalism and hostility. As proximity increases, so does understanding. I am reminded of Abraham Lincoln's quote, “I don't like that man. I must get to know him better.” Facts don't change our minds. Friendship does.